So when he makes those plans, it's just him and D9 included??
He never said us. It was all “him” and “his daughter”. No mention of me or my daughter. I wouldn’t move to the city anyway. I do not feel it is a place to raise a child.
What happened to when he was in CA and said he missed you? where did that go?
Who knows. I think it was just a slip using “all” instead of “the kids”.
Would XH consider letting "HIS' daughter stay with you while he goes out and explores the world on his own?
I wish like hell he would. I would do it in a heart beat. But he wouldn’t do this.
I don't know if you have posted about it earlier but what about her mother?
She lives in CA living in the woods and is on drugs. She hasn’t had a lot to do with D9 or D9’s half brother in a long time.
Well I’ve been looking at apartments. Just to get a feel for prices in the two towns I would live in. Kind of makes me sad to be doing this. Again. I had so many hopes for us to make it this time. And up until a few weeks ago I really believed things would be okay. I had a feeling that this trip would only give him more reason to give up and it did. But I can’t fix him. And he’s not willing to do it himself. So I don’t really look at it as me giving up but as me seeing things for what they really are – a man that’s so unhappy inside that nothing outside of himself is going to make a difference. I can only move on with my life to be happy and hope that one day he is able to do the same.
