Quote: We all have to decide when enough is enough and when we've reached that point individually.
I am somewhat at this point, so let me share my thoughts. It is so darn difficult to know whether you are at that point or not. It is not only how I feel, and what did it take for me to feel the way I do. And what about kids? Shouldn't I think about kids before I make a decision? My W decided to discount the damage that a D will cause to them, but I cannot underestimate the negative impact on them.
I also struggle to determine whether my W has reached a point of no return. These WAS keep sending a conflict signals and who knows, maybe they do will come back if we just stick to it for a bit longer.
I do not know, my friends. By any measures, this has been the most difficult time of my life. With all experience that I've accumulated in my 51 years, I feel like a teen who just learning how life works.
Hopeful, I pray that you will make the best decision for you and your kids. I know you are strong and wise to do so.
