Hopefully you all can work something out with D9. I'm sure he won't take her away completely. He has to think of her feelings too.
Like I said before, someone once told me a person knows when it is over and I guess you have gotten to that point. I am sorry you are having to go through this again. Even though you aren't married this time it doesn't make it any easier.
I really don't know what to say. I am at a loss for words right now. All I can say is good luck with whatever you do.