Underdog....I am glad I read your post here for Hope. It really sums up some of what I am going through. I was very controlling. It was like I was my H's mom and not his wife. I have learned not to expect anything from him or to tell him to do something. If he goes away for a weekend or even if we talk one morning then I always say, "Call if you get a chance". This way he can call if he wants but I don't expect it.
Thank you for that, seeing it in type made me really think about it.
