Have you heard the saying "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it is yours. If it doesn't, then it never was". I don't know if that is the whole saying
I think it's "If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it."
LOL. Did he really come back? Is what you've experienced since "he came back" really back? Doesn't sound like it to me. Sounds like a WAH that lives with you instead of apart.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt