Quote: but if you werer 3000 miles away from your kids, wouldn't you call back later? Or at least leave a message?
I call even if I am only 3 miles away from my kids. My H calls pretty much daily to talk to the kids but if we aren't home or if I don't have my cell with me he very seldom leaves a message. He hates talking on the machine. He never leaves a message anywhere. I hope your XH calls tonight. At least then it would ease your mind some. I am so sorry you are going through with this.
What if you texted him and said "sorry I missed your call yesterday....try again today." At least this way you tried.
((((hugs)))) I wish there was more I could offer you.