Yes, the list is mostly negatives, but that's all there is. I have nothing else to post. Yes he called and I didn't answer, but if you werer 3000 miles away from your kids, wouldn't you call back later? Or at least leave a message? I didn't call him back because he had told me his plans for last night before he left. He and his friend were going out. So I figured if he had time he'd call, if not, he was too busy. Why bother him?