Nothing new to report on my sitch. I haven’t seen much of H – and despite his promises to help me with RFD17, no action there either.
He comes over Saturday mornings now – to pick up his mail apparently – funnily enough, for a couple of years before we broke up he used to go to OWs every Saturday morning to see how she was getting on or help her with something around the house. Of course I never got it !! lol I thought he really did want to help a poor widow with the pump on the fish tank.
I’ve been thinking a lot about the period of mourning and grief I’ve been through over the past year or so and am so relieved to be coming to the end of it. I look back and remember how sad I was and am so relieved to be able to be happy again – but I wonder – do WAS grieve?
Has he gone through a period of mourning for me, for our marriage – or is it all beer and skittles for him?
Just wondering. I mean our loss is surely in some way their loss as well? What do you’all think?
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
