Hi WB, you big lurker. Welcome back.

I had finally accepted that he has made his choice. I accepted that he chose her to grow old with and it’s time for me to move on with my life – his has no room for me in it – all it takes is one bloody kiss and he’s in my head again and under my skin. He has no right

He's still one confused man. He obviously hasn't really moved on, as he still is having mail sent to your address, walks in without knocking... Maybe he sees that you are moving on, and that has bought this on. Who knows?

It's hard though, when your head thinks it's time to move on, yet he kisses you and your heart still goes thumpety thump

Poor RFDS16 Masses of chocolate are needed and some tear-jerker chick flicks, I think.

Happy to see you are moving on though, with a new house and a new job, and the obvious delights of B.

Stay strong and stay in contact with us. We missed your wisdom

Smile, it makes people wonder what you are up to!