At best, it is odd that she would schedule a party for your Ds on your weekend and at worst it's really inconsiderate and deluded about the custody agreement like she doesn't have any clue that she's legally binded to follow it. Weird.
About the court date, it sucks to pay these Ls so much money and then they don't even keep you informed of what the heck is going on. Geez! You did a great job by sensing your reaction and getting out of there before it shined through.
Keep strong Jabez.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
