The custody suit continues. The attorney that i have retained was not available for the first hearing, so he got a continence. I rarely travel for biz, but I'm going out of town this week. I told WAW last Tue and when I did she told me that we have a court date for Thu, I told her that I had received no notice. Later I confirmed with the L and he said yes we did (why didn't he tell me?), so I mailed a copy of my travel reservations and I won't be there.
D13 will soon to be D14! WAW's family has a birthday party for all in the family scheduled for a weekend that DD'd are scheduled to be w/me. I am planning a party for D14 and her friends here at home on the same day, so WAW emailed to ask if DD's could go to the party. I wrote back and said that we agreed to a schedule and not to schedule events on weekends that we don't have the girls, so if we're all invited, I'd be happy to bring them to the party. Haven't heard back yet.
I know that many of you think of my relationship w/OM's mom is strange, but we respect each other's boundaries and so far have been able to answer questions for each other. OM tells his mom almost every thing. He doesn't think they're doing anything wrong. WAW took OM to meet her parents over the holidays. Oh Brother! They went to Washington DC for the MLK weekend. DD's are going on three trips, one weekend, one 3 or 4 day and one for a week. The trips all cost some $. Each time WAW writes a check she complains about how much these trips cost. I guess DD's trips are putting a crimp on their travel plans.
On Fri PM I was ready to throw in the towel, but after a good night's sleep last night, I'm back to "I don't know what I want to do".
One of my 180's has been to say no in regards to some things w/DD's. The first on resulted in a law suit and WAW dropping the rude attitude. This second w/the birthday party, we'll see what happens.
