The conciliator meeting scheduled for today b/c of custody suit filed by WAW was canceled b/c the attorney that I've retained was in court on a different matter.
On Thu, D15 will be having a minor out patient procedure done. Both WAW & I have taken off work to be there. This will give me a golden opportunity to spend some time w/WAW. I intend on making conversation and keeping it light and friendly. Nothing about R or D or custody. Stuff about pets, DD's, maybe some work convo. Should I innocently include in the convo things about me that are different? Is it OK to ask questions of WAW? There were layoffs where she works, can ask "How is morale?" or "How was your workload affected?" Any other questions to ask WAW to show that I am interested in her, but not pursuing her?
Looking for some sage input as to other things to talk about. I plan on acting upbeat and happy, tho concerned about D's procedure, which, really is how I feel.
