I don't think so. I'm pretty sure that WAW is not interested in reconciliation right now, so I'm taking the lead by not shutting down the possibility. By not saying there is nothing she can do to make up for what she has done. By thinking about and identifying what, from my perception, I did to get where we are now and what, from my perception, WAW did to get where we are now. Maybe someday we can talk about WAW's perceptions and my perceptions, but only when she is ready. By initiating frivolous communication, I am leaving the door open, but not holding the door for WAW. That is why I think I am leading, however passive it may seem.
