What does she have to do to get me to consider taking her back?" Not quite right, males have to lead, initiatie, direct, be the head of the house for a good R dynamic to exist.
I'm thinking of myself as the conduit to reconciliation. I'm not going to call her names or judge her or criticize her. I'm going to initiate friendly, light hearted banter about nothing in particular just to keep the conduit open, but I'm not going to push her toward it or pull her into it.
