Check out the question that I posed to BF in the SSM forum.
Are you going to implement some BF-ness into your sitch?
I don't know. I hate rolling over b/c it makes me look like a wuss. And on the other hand I don't want to be a tyrant. So I think that I will continue to stand up for issues that I feel stronlgly about (i.e. DD's sleeping at home on school nights) and let the issues that aren't important to me (name calling, criticism of my beliefs, values) roll off. It's what makes me feel like my integrity is in tact.
