It is an interesting read and I wonder how my WAW would react to me being overconfident and cocky and telling WAW to stop when she is treating me in a way that I don't like.
I too have been visiting the SSM forum lately. Very interesting reading.
I wonder how effective BF's style would work in an R where the WA appears determined to get out. Would be an interesting experiment. I think Cobra is trying the not accepting any bs route but IMO you have to accept some bs and use the Jabez style and let it roll off once in a while. A happy medium of putting your foot down for the extreme dysfuntional things but letting the only annoying things slide would be a good rule? I get the impression Cobra puts his foot down all the time and he comes off mean. Similar to when I look arrogant when I try to stand up for myself.
Are you going to implement some BF-ness into your sitch?
