I'm not sure sure if my in-laws have ever met the OM. It doesn't really matter to me.

On the flip-side, I have a better relationship w/OM's mother that I do w/my MIL/FIL. We email/we talk. She looks at us both as "victims". OM lived w/her until the A got to be too much of a stress in their relationship.

On another note I read BlackFoot's post on Appearing Attractive to Women #1025210 - 12/04/05 06:17 PM. It is an interesting read and I wonder how my WAW would react to me being overconfident and cocky and telling WAW to stop when she is treating me in a way that I don't like. Normally I let the c*@p roll off and ingore it. I concentrate on getting WAW to open up and spew forth with what ever it is thats bugging her. And interesting 180.