Quote: Does anyone have any suggestions about how to "come out of the dark" and maybe put a finger in the air to see if the winds are blowing warm or if the "Alberta Clipper" is still in town?
I think you answered it yourself Jabez ...
Quote: The last time I talked to a DB coach, she said to make plans for D13&D15 & myself and not include WAW. I've done that. The only interaction I have w/WAW is via email regarding D13&D15. She said to leave the onus on WAW for plans for us together.
Remember patience. You have to wait until WAW makes a move.
When I decided I'd been dark long enough I wrote my husband a very DB note, that said, in calm, non-clingy language that I waSn't sure this is what I wanted and asked was he - he you know what - he wasn't.
That was because I was working on my timetable, not his. If you put your head over the parapet now, it is likely to be shot down because you are responding to your needs and your feelings rather than those of your wife.
You are doing so well Jabez. Remember why you are doing this, and the prize if you get it right.
Just keep being patient.
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