Hey Jabez, glad to hear you're feeling a little better.
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I know what you mean; I'm a CPA and I'm the same way!!
Custody is such an individual topic and there are so many different arrangements out there to that seem to work for their particular family. I hope you guys are able to agree on something that works for all of you. You were debating there for a while about asking the girls' opinions on where they wanted to live and/or what they thought the arrangements should be. What did you decide about asking them? BTW, are they in counseling?
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."