Quote: Do I have to be a biatch to get what I want?
If you want my honest opinion - NO, you don't. And I would disagree that being a bitch actually HAS gotten you what you want, because you are here; because you are unhappy; because you are nowhere near where you want to be. So while you equate being a bitch with seeing results, I would seriously question that equation and see if it is really true. . .
Just because you get a reaction which is somewhat nearer to what you want, does NOT mean that being a bitch works, that it gets you what you say you want. IMHO, your equation is wrong, LL. Which always leads me back to thinking that you need to look within, to ask yourself some hard questions, and to stop pointing fingers at H.
LL, I'd really recommend two books by Susan Jeffers for you. I re-read them both often because there is so much in there of value - and when I do, I often think of you in parts. They are Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and Opening Our Hearts to Men . This last one is really more about Love, then about loving or pleasing men.
Happy Holidays, LL. Here's hoping 2006 finds us happy, healthy and on our way...
