noticing trends in a relationship is often a good thing as it helps to keep the r in the direction you want.
Trouble is the trend I notice is that when I'm at my wits end...losing hope that anything is salvageable...thinking h is a loaf and will never change...complaining to myself and others about how horrible things are THAT is when I suddenly see a glimmer of hope...that is when h suddenly starts doing a bit more around the house...attmepting to spend bits of time with me...being more personable.
UGH!
how to have these things that I want occur without me becoming a misserable biatch to get them.
How to have these things blossom into more without presenting the idea that they aren't enough when well..on the whole they aren't enough they are but a glimmer of what could be with a bit more effort.
