when you phoned ow and she said that she wanted to say I told you so...
What did this mean?
it meant she thought she should feel happy that things didn't work out...in other words I told you we all married the wrong people.
Can you question her about H?
We (Ow and I) have decided that it was in the past...she learned from it and should move on...I'm not calling her again...the problems in my m have nothing to do with her...never did.
I'd like to know what he was like when he was with her.
So would I. I know that he used to call her everyday and showed up at her house every other day...as far as what he was actually "like" with her? who knows other than one of her complaints about her h was that he was emotionally unavailable..so I suppose my h was to her? I do know that he was someone she could talk to about her illness...they also eventually had conversations about how they could trust eachother...I get the sense from her that he even talked about me (she mentioned some things I did during sep that got to him) Does it really matter what he was like with her? what matters is how he is with me right?
