what you need to ask yourself is do i want this man back in life as a lover as a partner as a H, if the answer is Yes how can you do this if you dont talk, how can this happen if your not friends and able to be there for him, your have ben partner and i now believe that to be there again you have to grin and bear it for a while and see what happens.
I do know wht your feeling and there are days when i feel the same, at this moment intime my W dosnt want to talk to me and i mis that and the only way i see any improvement is to be her friend