I figured that would fire you up. Don't know really what to say. I guess personally I wouldn't want a spouse that wasn't also my friend, because in 20 years from now that is what is going to matter most to me. Someone I can talk to, share my day with, laugh with. Someone I consider my best friend. Sorry if I was off base. As you said...you are entitled to look out for yourself.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
