Regarding the "appt.", I CAN IDENTIFY AND RELATE! I took my wife out, showed her an excellent time, and while we caught a movie, she whispered in my ear that she is "going to make me moan" when we get home. I get home and it was if she NEVER said it, and ALL NIGHT I thought of us "moaning" together. Needless to say, I was extremely hurt.. LD women don't realize that those comments really affect us HD men!