Heard all this before. In the absence of mistreatment and whatever else. If the HD spouse is being the spouse they should be and are meeting the needs of the other spouse emotionally and whatever else (as witnessed by the other spouse), then why the drop off in sex. I am really done with stories and excuses. If I am being the man she thinks I should be, and being the man I think I should be, what gives. There are things I do in our marriage because I should and because it makes my wife happy. If that were not the case, I do not know that I would be doing them. Why then is making time to be together physically such an issue? Why can't the marital sex come first and see how it affects all this other stuff that everybody is always saying affects the sex. Let's discuss.


God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.