Frustrated and tired.......again!

[nightrunner]

Reading some of the posts recently, and the situation at home returning back to the normal crap, has me frustrated again. Why is it that the higher desire spouse has to deal with the lower desire spouse not trying. They will try for a while, but then things seem to go back to the way they were. I agree with some of the other HD people on the board. It is the trying that shows me she cares, not the actual sex. What I hate most is when I am told that we have an 'appointment', only to be told at the appointment time 'I am tired'. Don't they realize hope is all we have, and when they take that away from us, we have nothing left to show us that the relationship is not one sided. Have not posted for a while. Hope everyone else is still hanging on. Andy