Hi Peg.

If it was me I would do some serious visualisation...thinking of her as an ugly old troll..that way it'll ease your mind a little.


Men who I know who have had affairs, talk as if it is only sex. I think men are able to separate things in the way... When I think back to x boyfriends I don't 'feel' anything now. I don't even remember what the love (if any) I had with them was like ...in fact I rarely think of them anyway It's the here and now that counts.

You sound like you are doing well in your situation - keep up the good work.
Pink.