Actually I kind like the idea of you kicking him in the butt It leads me to a thought though. You are a very strong woman as I and others have said. Maybe you intimidate him once and awhile? I don't know. Food for thought.
You clearly got the expectation up to too high after trip. You had a special day to remember, but more importantly you missed him. Homecoming is a time when we all expect a little excitement on both sides. No big deal that you did this time.
What are some new 180's regrading your R? Could it be that you could somehow manipulate him into "rescuing you"? I know he doesn't respond when you need help, but I suspect he thinks of you as just too capable of needing any. Maybe some of our good female DB'er's can give you a scenario where the husband feels like he saved WCW. Good for his morale and attitude towards you. I don't know, again. Just speculating.
