Thanks, Hope. I know it will be like a vacation from H, all this crapola, time to let my shoulders sag for a week. All that will be good, and good for me, and most likely him. Or I hope so. At least your XH told you about it before he made all the plans. I'm still hung up on that part, and feeling very left out and excluded from his life again. It will just take time to get over it, and try looking for those positive signs and put them together for some PMA.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.