Hi Sweetie.....

You are not in an easy situation.

Let's go back to the beginning as if you were first DBing, because you have him there.........and that shows a lot of love..........but you both still have a lot of anger going....understandably........I'd personally have to kill him. And I'm a chemist, so I wouldn't do it quickly. He'd have to suffer.

So .... list your goals.....What do you want to change? What do you want from him? What would make you fall off your chair if he did it for you or said it to you? What would make you sooooooooooo glad you were married to this schmuck?


Let's start there.


BTW..........you are a verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry good person.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001