Ah! Well, that is one spot where our situations are very similar. WAW says that Om came after the fact (but before the bomb) but that's a load. Like you, I can pinpoint the actual week
Isn't it funny how we can "tell" when it started? My H was like your, WCW, saying how I hurt him so much by being "cold" that he had to turn away. (Uh, cold or busy with house, kids, dogs, and everything he didn't feel like doing?) And like both of you, I can pinpoint when it started. I had a Christmas party at my house, OW and her H were one of the couples invited. I saw a look in her eyes that night as she looked around at what I had..."Oh, I want HER life". I knew, that very night, that she was going to start going after my H. Within 3 months, my H was starting to pick fights and get restless, and OW was his good "friend".
Little did she know I planned to take MY life with me. It will be quite awhile before H can afford to give her what we had together! (well, for me too, but at least she doesn't have it)
But WCW, it sounds like things are going in the right direction for you! I'm really happy for you - now the hard part is patience!
