Wes - I couldn't agree with you more. I love my XH but right now the R we have isn't good for either one of us. I hope that one day he can be the person I know he is under all this pain and anger, but I'm not going to put my life on hold for him any longer. I too, hope that there is someone out there who will love me as I am and will want to be a part of my life. Someone who compliments me, not someone who wants to change me and make me in to something I'm not. All I want is to be happy, and that's what I want for everyone here too.
