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One day someone beat me up a bit because I kept rehashing all the negatives



Relook at it. I believe it was me. But I didn't say...leave the board Mr. Negative.

I'm not rehashing negatives about my first or second wife. I don't bitch and moan that she left. I don't look at the negative things about them (much). So what's so negative? Suggesting that we shouldn't look quite so hard? Suggesting that we should be comfortable and happy with our own life because chances are we won't be remarried to the XS?

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt