It has been fun reading your posts today. I for one related to when you mention the 'signs' from your first XW. I am completely done with my XH. He is not the man I fell in love with and I have no desire to be with the man he is. He has a live in girlfriend. Earlier this week he email me to check and see how I was doing. Could I have taken this as a sign that he wants me back? Sure. He even offered to bring me some mail that was delivered. Could I have taken this a positive--Whoohoo he wants to see me--he must want me back. Sure. Is that what is going on? No, he had not heard from me in awhile and we are trying to maintain some form of friendship and that is all it was. I know that, but I could have taken it differently and I think that all Wes was trying to say was that we tend to see things the way we want not necessarily the way the other person mean it. Just my opinion. Linda
