You have every right to your opinions, I will try not upset anyone any further. One day someone beat me up a bit because I kept rehashing all the negatives, I listened to them and you know what that is when real progress started.
My only real point is, is that if you want her back or even if you don't know, you must believe DBing will work or it won't.
You are right you didn't write the quote about dbers being in a fantasy. That is the quote that got me upset and in hast I responded to the wrong person. Sorry.
I wish you all the luck in the world, if you want your X back I hope it happens. If your happy alone or in a new R, I hope it goes well for you.
I have also been in the don't know stage, actually several times, so I know that it is agonizing.
