I feel that I just had to chime in here. I personally think that once we start to question the very thing that we've been holding out for, is a very healthy thing. It shows that we are no longer allowing and unhealthy person to overshadow what is really in our best interest. Until we are dealing with the reality of what is, we are not facing our situation from a position of strength and until we do that we aren't really moving forward or getting a life for that matter.
What Wes has said is a very good thing. We all reach this conclusion at our own pace and our timelines are all different.
Does that mean that he's given up? Not at all. It just means that he has now taken off his rose colored glass and understands that what he had thought he was getting out of his former relationship with his wife no longer works for the NEW Wes.
Unless any of our relationships are new and improved by each party then can it even work? Possibly for a period of time but probably not for a lifetime.
There is a distinct difference between giving up and giving in..................
