I am going to be a bit blunt and maybe at this point unpopular. But I will take the chance, if I offend someone I am sorry.
What is your goal? Do you want your XW back? Do you want to move on?
Being negative about DBing or being sarcastic about others wondering what the "look" from their X meant, etc will not help you obtain any goal.
Thinking people need a reality check is ok, but are you doing it because you are frustrated that Dbing is not working for you? Please rethink what your trying to achieve by being negative.
If you want your X back really DB, if you don't want your X back DB to get your life back on track with a positive outlook.
