I totally agree with what you just said. What is that quote or saying," that we are islands unto ourselves"?????
I have seen the same as far as my sitch goes. Most times the mood that is played out depends on how the dance starts.
I also agree with your take on MC's. Sad how we have no idea what's happening so we turn to the so called "professional". Little do we know that they don't know how to deal with it either. They're trained to get to the root of the individual problems and not the marital ones.
In the end all we can really do is look to ourselves to solve the problem or at least piece our lives back together.
