And yes, I am keeping it real. That's what I'm about these days...being real.
I'm not exactly DBing anymore. I don't think about whether I'm pursuing or whether some action pushes her away or pulls her closer. I'm not doing 180's, LRT, going dark, or any other technique that doesn't feel like me. Things between my XW and myself are status quo. We are divorced. I'm generally happy. And life in general is pretty good. What more could I ask? And no, I'm not doing any GAL activities that I don't think I can sustain.
Any questions?
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
