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And odds are that I won't "get the girl", but I'll get one that loves me for me eventually. This is the most likely scenario and I'm good with that too.



Mr ????,
I think this is very smart thinking!!!! I sucked at DBing, also. It felt too fake. I couldn't respect myself for some of the things that were expected of me. However, after my XH and I split, I didn't want him back so I'm somewhat different in that respect.