Two recent dreams of mine: I'm at the ex-wife's place (never been there in real life, have no idea what it's like), OM is there (he lives with her), he's looking not in great shape, not the most attractive guy. There's this wall, turns out it's not a wall, but a large hanging tapestry, hanging as if on a clothesline. On its other side is a street, and the street features a rather nice fountain in the middle of it, sort of like a cement fountain you'd see in a village square in Europe.
Next dream: I see the ex rising out of a chair, her appearance shows that she's obviously pregnant (she's 44, never been pregnant before, and never looked to have children).
I've been keeping a check to see what happens in real life after having these dreams, and some things come similarly close, some not. When I started posting after having these dreams start up back in mid-October through December, the interpretations were mostly about things changing, her relationship with the OM changing, transitions in my life. Well, my life has changed certainly with new doors opening for me since. As far as the ex goes, starting in mid-January, she started really opening up to me and telling me things like she only remembers the good times with me now as the pain has dissipated, she has seen changes in me that have her feeling like she doesn't know who I am anymore, that I'm a great guy, she misses me. As of the last week, this has stepped up some, we've now started having phone conversations about what went wrong between us, she told me that it wasn't that the OM is her great love but that he provided a comfort to her that she was seeking. We seem to be bonding a bit more as friends.
So, now I'm curious as to the possible meanings of these recent last two dreams.
