Hi, I haven't posted on here in a long time, but this thread really caught me. For weeks I've had dreams of me and H, being back together, still with OW in the picture, but as a friend to both of us.

It's always the same dream, but in a different house each time, and I've never seen any of the houses. H and I are back together in the dreams, and he is the loving adoring caring wonderful man that I married, and he has apologized for all the horrible things he did, and has forgiven my own mistakes. He holds me, hugs me, kisses me, and when I wake up, I am always stunned, and I mean STUNNED that it was a dream.

In the dreams I'm praying my thanks to God for finally answering my prayers, for rewarding my patience and perseverance, crying with happiness that it has all come to be wonderful again. Never in my life have I prayed in my dreams before these started a couple months ago.

How do I know if these dreams are actually significant, or merely just my subconscious fantasies?


Married: 2002
Separated: 10/2004
Divorce called off: Xmas 2005
H dropped bomb AGAIN: 11/2009
Sons: 2 and 4