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#557801 10/17/05 07:08 PM
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Hi James

I haven't heard from you in forever!

The bedroom is your sexual side. Breasts usually lucky, because if you consider before formula milk was invented, a baby's only means of survival was breast milk so in fact the whole human race depended on boobies to survive! Therefore it's a lucky symbol of love and joy.

Since you're a man (the interpretation is different for a female dreamer), then the bra means that you will be seduced by someone (not necessarily X) but not to rush into anything - remember the old saying, keep out of someone's panties or you'll get burned, LOL.

Of course, it could also be wish fulfillment in that you might want sex with your X again, LOL.

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Jo until you started this thread I hadn't thought about my dreams.Now I'm having one at least once a week.

Last night I dreamed I had a bloody nose.Kinda weird because I have never had one.But I could feel it.I dont mind having dreams.But can't they be normal.And why do they have to be physical.Meaning I feel them.Not just see them.

Who knows I just may be weird.

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I have been having dreams this last week with my Ex in them, One nite we were getting married I had the dress and was picking out music in my dress. He was kind of in the background. The next one he came to wake me up, I was under the covers, he laid on top and whispered in my ear, "It's time to get up". I was puzzeled when I woke each morning.

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Hi There

Well, actually you dream every night (studies have proven you would go clinically mad if you didn't dream every night) but you only remember one a week. They occur during REM sleep (Rapid Eye Movement) when your physical body is also regenerating. Dreams are the regeneration of your spiritual body.

Blood is usually bad in dreams (unless it is menstrual blood) as it is the draining of the life-force. A nose bleed relates to finances and is a warning to keep your money in order or you may get into financial problems in the next few months.

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Hi, I haven't posted on here in a long time, but this thread really caught me. For weeks I've had dreams of me and H, being back together, still with OW in the picture, but as a friend to both of us.

It's always the same dream, but in a different house each time, and I've never seen any of the houses. H and I are back together in the dreams, and he is the loving adoring caring wonderful man that I married, and he has apologized for all the horrible things he did, and has forgiven my own mistakes. He holds me, hugs me, kisses me, and when I wake up, I am always stunned, and I mean STUNNED that it was a dream.

In the dreams I'm praying my thanks to God for finally answering my prayers, for rewarding my patience and perseverance, crying with happiness that it has all come to be wonderful again. Never in my life have I prayed in my dreams before these started a couple months ago.

How do I know if these dreams are actually significant, or merely just my subconscious fantasies?


Married: 2002
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Curious and curiouser! I had gone to a psychic last month as a lark, and she foretold some things that did come true. So I went back to her last week, and again, some of the stuff that she told me has been coming true. Now, she also told me that she saw my ex telling me that she feels "alone". My ex ran off with her old boyfriend in April 2004 and has been with him since. I told the psychic that, and she said she saw her telling me this, not him.

Well, I was posting on someone's thread about distance-pursuer dynamics in relationships, when I realized that in describing a distancer, it was comparable to the actions of a commitment-phobe, and then I remembered that the OM is an alleged commitment phobe - my ex had told me that she planned on keeping him around by not pressing him for a commitment - and then a light went on. She's been demonstrating love for him, "pursuing", and now that their relationship has gone on a while, it may be that he's gotten over the infatuation and he's distancing from her loving, and the result may be that she feels alone. Hmmm.

It seems to fit with some facts. Their relationship has a lot of independence on both parts, which suits a CP's need to keep distance in a relationship. I had recommended a movie I saw, and she responded by saying perhaps she'd go see it with her GF. I mentioned I was going to AC, and she replied that she was thinking of going there too for an overnight stay and was thinking of inviting her GF. Now, at the time, I thought it odd that she wouldn't go to the movies or to AC with her boyfriend, but chalked it up to him giving her space to do as she pleases, she told me several times that she finds her life "boring"... but now I'm thinking instead that this fits the CP pattern of not getting fully involved in activities with their partner.

I know this is all speculation. But the fact is that the OM is a CP... and things I know of him do fit the CP profile. And now the psychic's prediction, and the dream interpretation, fit right along with that. That's kinda strange yet interesting that it's all happening at this time. I guess I'll see what happens.

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Hi Julie

Weddings can be one of three things:

1. Uniting of feminine and masculine aspects of your personality, feeling more in harmony with yourself.

2. Wish fulfilment - you want to get married so you are dreaming it.

3. Prophetic - heralding an actual wedding.

Music is a good omen of love, friends, good times etc, providing it was in tune and not Scottish bagpipe music.

Being asleep in your dream usually signifies waiting for something or being in a transition mode before you go to another phase of your life.

Him saying get up is one of 2 things, either he's telling you to get on with your life, i.e, 'wake up' or he's telling you the waiting is nearly over and it's time to get up. The bed is sexuality and repressed sexual desire for him.

Was the wedding the same dream as the waking up one? Because of so, the latter interpretation is probably accurate.

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Hi

Well you can't know 100% whether they are what is termed 'wish fulfilment' or prophetic. There are also 'release' dreams.
The only way of finding out is to keep a journal of all your dreams and see if they come true as time goes by. Sometimes they can mean something else which later becomes apparent, esp. if you have the journal to remind you.

I write in red pen under my dreams when one comes true, and put the date it happened. Now half of my journal is covered in red pen, LOL. I am even told dates for things.

It helps to plan ahead and sometimes I can modify my DB responses or not get so upset because I know what Andy is going to do before he does it.

Being friends with OW is probably a healing dream. You are righting something and making a nice friendship with her instead of the current sitch.

Houses represent family.

Did he actually apologise in the dream or were you just aware he was sorry? If he verbally apologised, this means a return to a former relationship.

The hug means relief from worry and an important change.

Kissing means love.

The praying could be that you want God to answer your prayers or that this is some insight into His course for you.

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greekgoddess,
One of my first dreams was with my W. Were in the process of having make-up sex. I woke up just as we were about to make love. That dream was so real I thought it was real. A more recent dream had me driving to my house, which I cannot go to because of a restraining order, after playing soccer. I get there but no one is home and I then realize I am not supposed to be there. Then, in the dream, I feel sad because there is no one home. Whats up with these dreams? Thanks.

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Hello

The sex dream would be sexual desire for your W.

For soccer, if you played it, this means your finances will improve (unless you lost the game, then it means the opposite). If you watched it, this means you should be more selective in choosing future friends.

Going to your house is a desire to go home and not belonging there is a feeling that you are unwanted/unloved. You are grieving and feel loss, and this is a healing dream.

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