I thought I'd post here since, after a decent hiatus from dreams with my WAW in them, I've started up again recently.
Early on after the bomb drop, I had dreams that, upon awakening, left a lingering sad feeling. Then I got to the place where, after such a dream, I woke relieved that it was only a dream. Big difference.
But lately, I've had these dreams: We went to a restaurant. Normal stuff, nice place. We were waiting on a table, and the last I remember, we were being escorted to our table. It was a pleasant dream. Didn't see any meaning in it upon awakening.
A couple of weeks later, I had a dream that I was putting her on a flight to Japan and bidding her goodbye. Perhaps that meant that I was accepting that she was going far away from me and letting her go?
Then a few nights ago, started having a dream concerning the OM. I've never met him. But in the dream, there he was all nice-like, looking younger than he is in real life, better than he is real life... just sitting there.
Then last night, again with the OM, this time though my ex is telling me how anyone he loves is captivated by him.
I realize dreams are the creation of the dreamer, and my daily conscious thoughts don't include the OM. What I do know of him is that he's a commitment phobe, dorky, older, and she's always looked upon him as a mentor, she's known him for decades. I don't know why my dreams are going there, just when I thought my unconscious was working out letting her go.