Am I uptight? I certainly can be, but generally, no.
And yes, Lil, W is certainly four-ish, in that she always wants to be "different." I remember, early on in the SSM struggle when I did all kinds of research about sexual frequency to prove that ours was "below normal." She really bristled at that, saying that nothing about her life should ever be "normal" which she equated with "ordinary." She has always wanted to be "extraordinary."
You guys are doing a great job of stroking my ego. I think the important lessons of the past week are that I need to continue to strive to be honest and open, that I need to conquer the unhealthy effects of fear in my life, and that I need to fight the power.
