I am curious, was W this bent on avoiding any physical contact with you before you married? Maybe in your earlier posts you discussed this, I don't remember. I can't imagine she was or I could not see you getting married to begin with. I am having a really hard time with what happens to these marriages that the physical contact stops. I know alot of things can happen, health problems, emotional problems........... and on and on, but dang, those of us who do not change are expected to just live with whatever changes our spouses have. Ok, babbling here, was just curious about that one question. I have to agree with whoever said your W is fully aware what the C meant by "us" time, and is acting dumb. Should be an interesting conversation in the next C meeting.
