Hairy,
I know and you know she isn't that dense. She knew exactly what was meant for the Monday night 'us' time, but for whatever reason she is playing stupid. I feel for you, man. Maybe a "look, I don't know what game you are playing, but this IS NOT WORKING for me" is in order. The EC bit is a load of BS and she knows it. She needs you to stand up and call BS on her, since you didn't she's just thinking she just pulled another one over on you. Be strong, take what is yours and leave no prisoners!