Just thought I'd pop in to mention that, in New York, if your spouse denies you sex ONE TIME, it is not grounds for divorce under the "constructive abandonment" theory. I read this and, although the husband was obviously a creep, I just wanted to slap the wife and say, "once? You got rejected once and you're crying to the judge about it? Get real!"

Marrying a person for sex is like buying a 747 for the free peanuts. (attrib.: Foxworthy)

Hairdog