But she, for some reason, doesn't think I'll ever be satisfied, so "why even try?" That's a mantra she needs to change. Because the "trying" is what will keep me with her, through thick and thin. The trying is definitely the important part. What I don't understand is why is why is it such hard work for them. I know my wife will do a million things everyday, most of which to me look like CHORES and yet she seems to ENJOY doing these things, while being sexual is like pulling teeth. Heck, I think my wife enjoys moping the floor more then any kind of physical encounter, be it sexual/affectionate/ or romantic. It's like these Acts of Service people get really hot for MORE acts of service, thye sure as heck never get hot for physical touch.
